Six weeks of meet ups with a small group of local mums in Southgate, Winchmore Hill, and Palmers Green. Time to find your people, feel a bit more like yourself, and leave with the friendships that last.
Your partner goes back to work. You are up at 3am googling things that feel too small to ask anyone out loud. You are wondering if you are doing it "right". Sound familiar?
No one really tells you how hard it can be to find your people after having a baby. That is what we are here for. A space that stays the same from one week to the next, where chats pick up where they left off, and friendships have room to grow.
Six weeks of meet ups, put together with real care. Unhurried, and built for you and your baby both.
The unstructured bits are where people get to know each other properly. We book the venue, you bring yourself, no awkward icebreakers.
Think baby massage, sensory, and more. Short tasters so you can see what you and your baby enjoy, without signing up to a block booking before you know if it suits you.
Not a one-off class, not a single mixer. The same faces week after week, so familiarity has time to build. You get to know each other's babies, each other's weeks, and yourselves somewhere in the middle of it all.
I feel really lucky to say this, but I found my people early on. We met before we had our babies, and once we all had our little ones, the mums group just clicked.
Every Wednesday, like clockwork, we'd meet. Same faces, same place. We'd chat, share, offload, catch up on whatever chaos the week had brought. We still do now.
The more we talked about it, the more we realised this isn't the norm. Most mums don't get that kind of consistency. Or that kind of space.
Now we're planning first birthdays and figuring out what life looks like after mat leave, and I keep thinking how much those Wednesdays shaped everything.
Week one? I was nervous. By week three, I felt more open. And somewhere along the way, those women became my people.
So I'm building the Fourth Trimester Club, so more mums get to have that too.
Six meet ups over six weeks. Here is what £220 covers, and what it does not.
Three social meet ups and three baby classes across six weeks. Every venue booked, every booking sorted, nothing for you to chase.
Your private group chat goes live from day one, and it is yours to keep. No curriculum and no advice either. Just a room where you and your baby both get to be.
No hoops, no awkward mixers. A simple way in.
Tell us a bit about you and your baby. Two minutes, no payment, no commitment.
We share dates and venues, and let you know when your club is filling up.
When you are ready, pay £220 to lock in your place.
Week one, summer 2026. We have done the organising. You just bring yourself and your baby.
We are still new, so here is the honest version of how we think.
Everything else, the venues, the meet ups, the logistics, is a vehicle for it. If you do not leave with friends, we have failed.
You already have opinions coming at you from every angle. We are not going to pile on or have a view on how you do any of this. Our job is to host, not to teach.
Six weeks of meet ups, and a group of mums that keeps going long after we have stopped organising. That is the whole point of it.
Our first club runs across Southgate, Winchmore Hill, and Palmers Green in summer 2026. Leave your details and we will be in touch as dates and venues take shape. No payment now, no pressure.