Six weeks of meet ups with a small group of local mums in Southgate, Winchmore Hill, and Palmers Green. Time to find your people, feel a bit more like yourself, and leave with the friendships that actually last.
Your partner goes back to work. You are up at 3am googling things that feel too small to ask anyone out loud. You are wondering if you are doing it "right". Sound familiar?
No one really tells you how hard it can be to find your people after having a baby. That is what we are here for. A space where you see the same friendly faces each week, where chats pick up where they left off, and where friendships actually have time to grow.
A small, thoughtfully put together group of local mums. No drop-ins, no introducing yourself for the hundredth time. Just a chance to get to know the women who are in the same place as you, at the same time as you.
Up to 12 mums from near you, all starting at the same time. Small enough that everyone actually knows your name by week two.
Short tasters over the six weeks. A gentle way to see what you and your baby actually enjoy, without committing to a block booking before you know if it suits you.
Your group chat starts on day one and is yours to keep. The six weeks come to an end. The friendships do not.
Six weeks of meet ups, put together with real care. Gentle, unhurried, and designed for mums and babies alike.
Unstructured time is where the real friendships happen. We book the venue, you bring yourself, no awkward icebreakers.
Think baby massage, sensory, and more. Short tasters so you can see what you and your baby actually enjoy, without signing up to a block booking before you know if it suits you.
Not a one-off class, not a single mixer. The same faces week after week, so familiarity has time to build. You get to know each other's babies, each other's weeks, and yourselves somewhere in the middle of it all.
I feel really lucky to say this, but I found my people early on. We met before we had our babies, and once we all had our little ones, the mums group just clicked.
Every Wednesday, like clockwork, we'd meet. Same faces, same place. We'd chat, share, offload, catch up on whatever chaos the week had brought. We still do now.
The more we talked about it, the more we realised this isn't the norm. Most mums don't get that kind of consistency. Or that kind of space.
Now we're planning first birthdays and figuring out what life looks like after mat leave, and I keep thinking how much those Wednesdays shaped everything.
Week one? I was nervous. By week three, I felt more open. And somewhere along the way, those women became my people.
So I'm building The Fourth Trimester Club, so more mums get to have that too.
Six weeks, six meet ups, and a group chat that lasts a lot longer.
Coffees, walks, brunches. The unstructured time where the real friendships tend to form.
Baby massage, sensory, and more. Short tasters, so you can see what you and your baby actually enjoy before committing to a block booking.
Every meet up is built to work for both of you. A room where your baby can be a baby, and you can be a person too.
Live before week one. Private, permanent, and yours to keep long after the meet ups end.
No hoops, no awkward mixers. A simple way in.
Tell us a bit about you and your baby. Two minutes, no payment, no commitment.
We share dates and venues, and let you know when your cohort is filling up.
When you are ready, pay £220 to lock in your place. The group chat starts straight away.
Week one, summer 2026. We have done the organising. You just bring yourself and your baby.
We are still new, so here is the honest version of how we think.
Everything else, the venues, the meet ups, the logistics, is a vehicle for it. If you do not leave with friends, we have failed.
You already have opinions coming at you from every angle. We will not add ours. We are here to host, not to teach.
This is not a class you take before the baby comes, and it is not a one-off morning you pay for and forget. It is the same small group, meeting again and again, so real familiarity has time to build.
Your group chat is permanent. Six weeks of meet ups, and a group of mums that keeps going long after we have stopped organising.
Cohort one runs across Southgate, Winchmore Hill, and Palmers Green in summer 2026. Leave your details and we will be in touch as dates and venues take shape. No payment now, no pressure.